April 25th, 2005
 

Taking care of a parent can be a difficult thing, both physically and emotionally.  As I have been getting older, so have my parents.  Thoughts of caring for a parent have in recent years turned into reality.  It is difficult having the tables turned – your mom used to take care of you and now she needs your help.  It is important to be sure that if you are taking care of an adult family member, whether a parent or sibling, that you find time for yourself as to not become overwhelmed. 

Here are some articles I have found to help me through my personal situation: 

• Caring for Aging Loved Ones
  http://health.ivillage.com/familycare/seniorhealth/0,,jdz3,00.html
• Worn out Worrying about Elderly Parents
  http://health.ivillage.com/familycare/seniorhealth/0,,5kst,00.html
• Torn between caring for parents and having a baby
  http://parenting.ivillage.com/ttc/ttcprep/0,,3wjc,00.html

Be good to yourself!!

Susan
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